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Women networks - even sororities - are not just for drinking tea (or wine).
This year marks the 4th lustrum of the sorority LUNA which I joined during my BA studies at University College Utrecht. What started as...


“I haven’t got time for a bloody 3 hour coaching session . And that is why I know I need it.” - CEO of large international company, longstanding client.
You can always do more. Another project, another task, another responsibility. Until you can’t. Stress is a stimulus. We need it. Not...


"What if I can't find my way back from the toilet to the classroom?"
My just-4-year-old had tummy aches for weeks before starting elementary school this Monday. Why is it so daunting to start something new?...


For several days last week, we were being held hostage by a family of 8 adolescent ducks.
Whenever we would open the front door, they'd try to get in. We would wait. They would just lay down on the driveway and wait as well. So...


“I’m just going to vacuum the stairs” said our builder at the end of day 1 of our 2 months attic remodel.
“Well, I can do that…” I muttered. Why is it so hard to accept help? To let someone do something for you, easy or difficult… What does it...


I planted 3 sunflower seeds and gave them the same amount of water, feed, and love.
Two are flourishing, one is still tiny. Growing something, or someone, is not a one-size-fits-all approach. We think we know how to...


Yes, I'm a bit behind on my daily calendar.
But it's never too late for some positive vibes. It's good to strive for great results, but don't forget to focus on the positives along...


BANG
Metal on metal. A bicycle and a van. Full frontal collision. The food delivery cyclist gets up unharmed. Locks eyes with the van driver....


Networking is about fake and superficial interactions.
At awkward events. To exchange business cards. For when you need something from someone. No. Networking is like gardening. It is about...


“Put your own oxygen mask on first, before helping your kids”.
When you fly with kids, they will personally come to your seat and remind you. When stress hits at work, do you take care of yourself...


Among the 94 big listed companies in NL, there are more CEO's with the name Peter (5) than female CEO's (4).
Equality - my ass. So I'm joining this awareness campaign to change my name temporarily to Peter. With a call to all companies to do...


'For all our daughters, wives and mothers'. The second edition is out!
Over 10 years ago, as part of my MSc dissertation at LSE, I worked with the authors of this book Averil and François to research the main...


I do most of the admin in our household.
So I registered our family with a new GP after moving house. But my husband got sent the consent form to request details from the old GP...


It’s coming: 2022.
What is your New Year’s resolution? Will you make your dream come true? Sadly, most people won’t. We say we want change, but we don’t...


“I’m calling you from the parking lot of the day spa,” I said to a business contact yesterday morning.
“I’m calling you from the parking lot of the day spa,” I said to a business contact yesterday morning. “I’ll be unavailable the rest of...


My husband attributes part of his success to me.
We share his successes. And mine, too. Behind every successful person, is their partner. Do you know the story about Winston Churchill...


The one who doesn’t make mistakes, usually doesn’t make anything at all (Dutch saying).
In Google they call it ‘Failing fast’. In Facebook they say ‘Done is better than perfect’. We want to things perfectly. We are afraid to...


You are either confident, or not. Right? Wrong.
Confidence is a puzzle. Confidence is partly situational: with the same knowledge and experience, we can be confident in one situation...


Sleep. Are you getting enough?
When things get busy, it is one of the first things we cut down on. We go to bed a bit later, or get up a bit earlier. Or even pull an...


Your first steps into leadership can feel like walking a rope bridge for the first time: uneasy, wobbly, and the safety of the ground is far below you.
Would you let anyone take those steps alone? We believe it is crucial for young leaders to get proper guidance, even though the norm is...
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